A a good friend of mine, Natasha Nassar, posed an interesting question yesterday: What Is Your Theme Song?
To my surprise, it didn’t take me long at all to decide which song was mine. It is on my “Favorites” playlist on my Zen and I listen to it quite often. =)
It’s called When The Sand Runs Out by Rascal Flatts.
(You can imagine me singing my lungs out while driving down the road with the volume one or two notches too loud =)…
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When The Sand Runs Out
By Rascal Flatts
I spent the morning at an old friend’s grave
Flowers and Amazing Grace, he was a good man
He spent his whole life spinnin’ his wheels
Never knowin’ how the real thing feels
He never took a chance or took the time to dance
And I stood there thinking as I said goodbye
Today is the first day of the rest of my life
I’m gonna stop lookin’ back and start movin’ on
And learn how to face my fears
Love with all of my heart, make my mark
I wanna leave something here
Go out on a ledge, with out any net
That’s what I’m gonna be about
Yeah I wanna be runnin’
When the sand runs out
‘Cause people do it everyday
Promise themselves they’re gonna change
I’ve been there, but I’m changin’ from the inside out
That was then and this is now
I’m a new man, yeah, I’m a brand new man
And when they carve my stone they’ll write these words
“Here lies a man who lived life for all that its worth”
And as the cold wind blows across the graveyard
I think I hear the voice of my old friend whisper in my ear
I’m gonna stop lookin’ back and start movin’ on
Learn how to face my fears
Love with all of my heart, make my mark
I wanna leave something here
Go out on a ledge, with out any net
That’s what I’m gonna be about
Yeah I wanna be runnin’
When the sand runs out
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I absolutely love this song! My favorite part is the chorus “I’m gonna stop looking back and start movin’ on/ Learn how to face my fears / Love with all of my heart, make my mark/ I wanna leave something here.”
Those few lines encompass EVERTHING that I am working toward.
Let me tell you what I mean.
If you know my story, you know that I went through a rather dark period of life. I have always been a perfectionist and that combined with some choices I made, landed me in a place where I seriously didn’t want to live.
It was through my mentors and parents that I finally climbed out of that dismal hole and found out that life and loving was worth it.
As I was trying to turn my life around, the perfectionist in me was saying, “What makes you think you can change? This is the way you’ve been for quite a while now. And, you might as well give up because now that you have been in this state, you are most definitely NOT perfect.”
Funny.
I had to struggle to learn how to “Stop lookin’ back and start movin’ on!”
In fact, I found out just this weekend how this experience and the words of this song combine to create a skill that I can share with the world. A friend of mine was really having a difficult time accepting herself for who she is right now and not being critical of every tinsy thing that she might not like about herself.
It was so enlightening for me to be able to share with her my experience of learning to “Stop lookin’ back and start movin’ on.” It is truly and wonderfully freeing to let go of the past and turn to look forward.
It was after I began to let go of the past when I really started to discover that life was more than me. It was so much bigger. It was about others. It was about what I could do to help others.
And that is what made me fall in love with this industry.
I mean, isn’t that what network marketing is all about? Loving with all our hearts? Truly successful people love people with a deep and overwhelming love…
But, for me, this realization was coupled with a fear…
A fear of being hurt by putting my whole self out there. If I gave my whole soul, wouldn’t there be someone who would smash it?
Perhaps.
But that is a huge part of the equation. “Learn how to face my fears.”
And lastly is something that I truly believe each and every one of us want in our lives:
“Make my mark / I wanna leave something here .”
Isn’t that what every human being has ever wanted? We want to leave a legacy. We want to leave behind something bigger than ourselves. Something to be remembered by.
Ah…
I just adore that song.
So,
Stop lookin’ back and start movin’ on
Learn how to face your fears
Love with all of your heart, make your mark
You’re gonna leave something here
Let’s keep runnin’ till the sand runs out!


P.S. I’d love to know what your theme song is. Leave a comment with your song and why you love it.